FIle is off to China finally

1 year and 4 months and our file is off to China yippeee
now just wait for the DTC (date to china) the LID (log in date) and then many many many months down the track allocation......
You know i have been reading rumour queen and they released some blogger sites that have been allocated in the last few weeks, like waiting for lucy.
It is so fascinating that they say whew how stressful the paperchase has taken 3-4 months! how does that work? Are they then going to wait an additional 12 mnths for allocation?
There is loads being talked about and done in the AUstralian adoption community about all these wait times etc. But i feel it will all be to late for all those before me and for us?
Man is not infertility enough to suffer? then this wait.
The strangest thing for me is that here i am waiting for some poor lady to get pregnant, someone who knows she cant keep the baby or who is praying for a boy, then she has to give up her own child so that i can be a mother. Sometimes this whole situation feels wrong....
One womans suffering is anothers most joyous occasions.

On that happy note :)